BTW despre cum joaca E.Clarke recomand sa citit acest post lung: https://www.reddit.com/r/asoiaf/comm..._insight_into/ si va las un mic quote care este aproape indentic cu ce cred eu despre acest subiect:

I think I've said this before, especially when some criticize Emilia (who in interviews or other roles is emotive and expressive as hell). To me, the majority of the time, Dany herself is ACTING. Emilia is acting as Dany who is putting on a show of strength. Dany is playing the role that she thinks she's supposed to play. The role of a conquering Targaryen. This is why she gives the speeches and why she feels or emotes little when speaking with men in power, and why she's constantly repeating her titles. She's having to remind herself of who she's supposed to be.

But really, I think you nailed it. She doesn't really want all that power. The throne, the crown, the 7 Kingdoms. She wants peace surely, but truly she just wants a home and a family. That much we know from the books as well. She'd probably be just as happy, and likely more, with a simple house and a simple red door, and a family of her own.